Principles of Marriage
By Mark Delahunt
Are you both suited before you both commit in marriage for life?Marriage is an agreement on both parties. Once you are married you are committed and locked in for life (until death do you part).Most people think Marriage is between two people WRONG it is between God husband and wife.
When you take your vows in marriage you speck it, commit to it, and your bounded to it, like a contract for life. This is pleasing to God as we are a gift to each other. That’s how God shows his love to us. Another blessing from God is allowing children to enhance the marriage. God wants us to raise them wisely, guiding them for our future blessings to be carried out into the generations. Not having children doesn’t mean that you are not blessed; under God you are considered a family once you are married. If you feel you are not a family until you have a child that is worldly thinking, as God has his reasons.
There are hard times and good times in Marriage unfortunately most people in society today take the easy way out (even Christians), which is divorce instead of working it through. Christ did not divorce the church and like-wise we must stick together through thick and thin just like Christ did. We need to seek God’s counseling in seasons in our lives, in those hard times. God will direct this to us by using our communication with Him and He will lead us to where He wants us to be.
1 Corinthians 7:4
The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but to his wife.
Ephesians 5:22-25
Wives submit to your husbands as to the lord for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body of which he is the savior. Now as the church submits to Christ so also wives submit to their husbands in everything. Husbands love your wives just as Christ loved the church and give him self up for her
Men you are the Minster and the head of the home we need to pray for our wives and family daily tell her you love here take your wife out once and a while on a Date ED Cole Said We tune up our cars but not our Marriage so spend time with your wife helping her with house hold chores. Men need to act in Christ-likeness showing her your love by listening and show good communication.
Wives let the husband take the responsibility and be the Minster in the home as its in Gods Plans submit to your husbands as you do in Christ as your Marriage will be blessed you both appreciate it. Submission is a form of being humble under God with Christ Jesus in the middle of your marriage it is a match made in heaven. Come together in prayer on all concerns. Take time to truly get to know the person you want to commit to. I feel that it is important to know the family history on marriage before being committed to each other be careful not to marry into dysfunction.
DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTION
When things go wrong take your issues to Christ Jesus in prayer as Christ will show you what to do, to put your issues right. The word Divorce in the dictionary means legal dissolution of marriage separation which is WRONG it means destroy dissolve end finish which is the work of the kingdom of Satan he will lie, cheat, trick, and do any thing to destroy Gods plan Satan is the Master destroyer DO NOT TAKE THIS OPTION unfortunately most people take the easy way out even Christians why should God bless us when we destroy his perfect plan in Marriage then we say were is God He’s not with me I wonder why.
Your marriage is part of Gods plan build on Gods plans as the battle is one through the blood of Jesus when he died on the cross for our sins and rose on the third day for the kingdom of heaven. With Christ in the middle of your marriage is a match made in heaven. You should be following in his likeness as Christ is the Bride of the Church which is the same in Marriage.
Your Marriage should be a legacy that is blessed and last's for ever though our savior Jesus Christ
1 Corinthians 7:27
Are you married? Do not seek Divorce
Malachi 2:16
I hate divorce” says the Lord God of Israel and I hate a man covering himself with violence as well as with garment says the Lord Almighty so guard your self in spirit and do not break faith.
